Breadcrumbs [Home](/index%2Ephp/) > [The Sex Toys & Accessories To Try This Valentine’s Day](/index%2Ephp/markdownify/node/438) ![The Sex Toys & Accessories To Try This Valentine’s Day ](https://media.slman.com/RbWHs2ZMVt0l-xyuG-Ri3HdOUQE=/800x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fsextoyslmanthumb.png) PEXELS / ALLEKSANA [Life](/index%2Ephp/life) / 09 February 2021 # The Sex Toys & Accessories To Try This Valentine’s Day If you’re stuck in a rut or just want to shake things up this Valentine’s day, give the chocolates a miss and treat yourself and your partner to something you can both enjoy. Sex toys have had a major makeover as of late – now discreet, sleek and sophisticated, there’s something for everyone. Here are the best ones to try… PEXELS / ALLEKSANA All products on this page have been selected by our editorial team, however we may make commission on some products. ## TOYS Even if you think your between-the-sheets time doesn’t need a kick-start, remember 37% of women need clitoral stimulation (and not just penetration) to climax. Adding a toy into the mix can be a fun way to ensure maximum satisfaction for both of you. If you’re a beginner, go slow – use the lowest setting and the smallest size. [Je Joue’s Rabbit Bullet](https://amzn.to/3tK2w0t) and [Kiki de Montparnasse’s Gold Bullet](https://www.kikidm.com/collections/pleasure/products/etoile-bullet-gold)[ ](https://www.kikidm.com/collections/pleasure/products/etoile-bullet-gold)are the perfect entry-level options and ideal for couples play. Those wanting to explore new territory should try LELO’s cult [Transformer](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=35269&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.cultbeauty.co.uk%2Flelo-picobong-transformer.html), a double-ended vibrator that can be used for everything from clitoral to G-spot and even prostate stimulation. ![Doxy Wand from Coco de Mer](https://media.slman.com/5cx7xtyZETnmzDfIgEhpKsiRy44=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fcoco-de-mer-doxy-wand.png) [#### Doxy Wand](https://www.coco-de-mer.com/product/doxy-number-3-rechargeable-wand-vibrator-matte-black/) ##### Coco de Mer £175 ![Eva II from Dame Products](https://media.slman.com/nAmoE64POPzqBdIeBMk1gXs1MB4=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fdame-products-eva-ii.jpg) [#### Eva II](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=35269&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.cultbeauty.co.uk%2Fdame-products-eva-ii-quartz.html) ##### Dame Products £135 ![Rabbit Bullet from Je Joue ](https://media.slman.com/vUrdD6zz2sCTjvkO2mqhtmsXvXA=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fje-joue-rabbit-bullet.png) [#### Rabbit Bullet](https://amzn.to/3tK2w0t) ##### Je Joue £35.75 ![Picobong Transformer from Lelo](https://media.slman.com/jlqp8KMJE8HZxVRBO3KTLLdIPJ0=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fcult-beauty-lelo-picobong-transformer.jpg) [#### Picobong Transformer](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=35269&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.cultbeauty.co.uk%2Flelo-picobong-transformer.html) ##### Lelo £85 ![Etoile Bullet Gold from Kiki de Montparnasse](https://media.slman.com/v_lxpjL9WennD_rEpd5IE0dwdyw=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fkiki-de-montparnasse-etoile-bullet-gold.jpg) [#### Etoile Bullet Gold](https://www.kikidm.com/collections/pleasure/products/etoile-bullet-gold) ##### Kiki de Montparnasse £130 ![Pom from Dame Products ](https://media.slman.com/zk3VuEGokx7w5mchq7spISjagPw=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fdame-products-pom.jpg) [#### Pom](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=35269&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.cultbeauty.co.uk%2Fdame-products-pom-plum.html) ##### Dame Products £95 [ ![Couple's Vibrator, £39 | We-Vibe](https://media.slman.com/s4ib6JjRlhI_AE4qa28lsM8ZRWQ=/800x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fwe-vibecouplesvibrator.png) ](https://www.amazon.co.uk/We-Vibe%C2%AE-Vibrator-Rechargeable-Waterproof-Body-Safe/dp/B07ZG4CS3Y/ref=pd_lpo_121_img_1/257-8673602-8787949?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B07ZG4CS3Y&pd_rd_r=b4666a24-02ec-41b3-9e8b-e351704df10b&pd_rd_w=aD5ed&pd_rd_wg=FYHj7&pf_rd_p=da) Couple's Vibrator, £39 | We-Vibe “Fitting between you and your other half during sex, this pocket-sized toy delivers hands-free, intense vibrations. It’s also waterproof, making it safe to use in the shower.” ![Tor 2 from Lelo ](https://media.slman.com/F-lfv-ewzuqVSlERMo7anENI1xI=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Flelo-tor-2.png) [#### Tor 2](https://www.lelo.com/tor-2?gclid=Cj0KCQiApY6BBhCsARIsAOI_GjYJRNukfRseIsXgJqaOrC2Z8HnxJErbCrBrHlKHUP9wh6izctNmQU8aAm63EALw_wcB) ##### Lelo £109 ![Multifun 3 from Satisfyer ](https://media.slman.com/VkDq4NkyDsJGROn8wFOi6poQaUk=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fsatisfyer-partner-multifun-3.jpg) [#### Multifun 3](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Satisfyer-SATPARTNERM3W/dp/B07V1K6YVM?th=1) ##### Satisfyer £33.79 ![The Sex Box from Soho Home](https://media.slman.com/GDa5sFin-W9QpeMI4MGU8mblGWQ=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fsohohomethesexbox.png) [#### The Sex Box](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=42468&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.sohohome.com%2Fproducts%2Fthe-sex-box) ##### Soho Home £175 ## ACCESSORIES If you want to get adventurous, think about add-ons. While not a toy per se, a decent lubricant is a good-sex staple – it can increase sensation and create a more intimate experience. [Nécessaire’s Sex Gel](https://goop.com/gb-en/necessaire-the-sex-gel/p/?variant_id=54848) is one to keep on your radar: unlike its more traditional counterparts, it uses aloe vera and hyaluronic acid to provide the ‘slip’; it’s water-based, so it’s safe to use with toys and condoms. [Uberlube’s](https://www.uberlube.com/shop/100-ml-bottle) cult formula is free from sticky residue. Play it safe with [HANX’s ](https://www.hanxofficial.com/products/vegan-natural-condoms)vegan, ultra-thin condoms, or try LELO’s bestselling [Hex](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=41168&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lelo.com%2Fhex-condoms-original), designed to maximise sensation without sacrificing safety. ![Massage Oil from 210th](https://media.slman.com/gsmfcuvWkM0AGydGy9YTEPIyzBw=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2F210thmassageoil.png) [#### Massage Oil](https://www.amazon.co.uk/210th-150-Experience-Massage-Oil/dp/B00FLY81IS) ##### 210th £29.95 ![The Sex Gel from Necessaire ](https://media.slman.com/yKMdyx57XET2PmRm-sTuHGeY9C4=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fgoopnecessairethesexgel.png) [#### The Sex Gel](https://goop.com/gb-en/necessaire-the-sex-gel/p/?variant_id=54848) ##### Necessaire £19 ![Massage Candle from Lelo](https://media.slman.com/u_GuTUfER_whjhPhcXvjs38vWBw=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fselfridgeslelomassagecandle.png) [#### Massage Candle](https://www.lelo.com/flickering-touch-massage-candle&sa=D&source=hangouts&ust=1613066232861000&usg=AFQjCNEpq-eNeWNApIW819Kqt4arIJVgyg) ##### Lelo £24.90 ![Male Condom from Hanx](https://media.slman.com/rjxwYEzdYTAw2z918Gggo4MMhL8=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fhanx-male-condom.jpg) [#### Male Condom](https://www.hanxofficial.com/products/vegan-natural-condoms) ##### Hanx £1.99 ![Zini Sharing for Couples from La Belle Epoque](https://media.slman.com/2BGALlxBTnv03d1GUfLc_qFxJMY=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fla-belle-epoque-zini-sharing-couples.jpg) [#### Zini Sharing for Couples](https://www.labelle.co.uk/products/zini-sharing-for-couples) ##### La Belle Epoque £26 ![Personal Moisturiser from Lelo](https://media.slman.com/fc6pru2WESKGvHr_11RB1Ooqivk=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Flelo-personal-moisturiser.jpg) [#### Personal Moisturiser](https://www.lelo.com/personal-moisturizer) ##### Lelo £12.90 “This clever candle melts at just above body temperature, so it will be warm to the touch without burning the skin.” [ ![Massage Oil Candle, £46 | Kiki De Montparnasse](https://media.slman.com/3gV3ksaw7Dsutw1lden_Kmxg85s=/800x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fkikidemontparnassemassageoilcandle.png) ](https://kikidm.com/collections/massage-oil-candles/products/candle-small-lotus-no-9) Massage Oil Candle, £46 | Kiki De Montparnasse ![Warming Massage Oil from Slow Sex ](https://media.slman.com/oqZygtO50tudMFOvpwZKL7sS8w4=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fslowsexwarmingmassageoil.png) [#### Warming Massage Oil](https://www.superdrug.com/Health/Sexual-Health/Lube%2C-Gel%2C-Jelly-%26-Oils/Bijoux-Indiscrets-Warming-massage-oil-SLOW-SEX-50-ml/p/798254) ##### Slow Sex £20 ![Hex Condoms from Lelo](https://media.slman.com/-wGJxI7TNY_zuwkyZu2uUu4JxJ0=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Flelohexcondoms.png) [#### Hex Condoms](https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=etT1jgERWYw&mid=41168&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lelo.com%2Fhex-condoms-original) ##### Lelo £22.42 ![Oral Sex Strips from Slow Sex ](https://media.slman.com/boKpDBo6K3yrfMGC3fMKr7qop7o=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fslow-sex-oral-sex-strips.jpg) [#### Oral Sex Strips](https://shopeu.bijouxindiscrets.com/collections/slowsex/products/oral-sex-strips) ##### Slow Sex €4.95 ![Uberlube 100ml from Uberlube](https://media.slman.com/eQtTwVH-Oxi0AuQHWd3PbZGOzNs=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fuberlube.png) [#### Uberlube 100ml](https://www.uberlube.com/shop/100-ml-bottle) ##### Uberlube $28 ![Ceramic Massage Stone from Jimmy Contour Ceramic](https://media.slman.com/OMbxTGXhrkoLHhde_cptohhHSdw=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fjimmyjanecontourm.png) [#### Ceramic Massage Stone](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Jimmy-Contour-Ceramic-Massage-Stone) ##### Jimmy Contour Ceramic £13.59 ![Lubricant from Hanx](https://media.slman.com/stZ-gEVFPdmV88HuospLbhWV1O4=/600x0/smart/https%3A%2F%2Fslman.com%2Fsites%2Fslman%2Ffiles%2Farticles%2F2021%2F02%2Fhanxlubricant.png) [#### Lubricant](https://www.hanxofficial.com/products/lubricant) ##### Hanx £14.99 All products on this page have been selected by our editorial team, however we may make commission on some products. 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